Teen Cutting and adult Self harm:
Here is a letter we received from a mom in pain for her sons girlfriend who is self harming. We rarely post the many letters that we receive but this one is urge and will help others to see how deep this problem is.
Here is the reader comment we received recently
My son has just split with his girl friend because of her self harming he cant cope with it as he doesnot know how to help her so he left i am mother of my son we have never been involved with any one who does this but i dont want to leave her on her own as she slashed her wrist today after she had clawed half my son body and neck and face….. but even though she has done this we really need to get her help can please help us what to do to help her ….thank you
SPIRIT HAPPY RESPONSE to teen cutting: This girl is in deep pain and has an emotional issue that has not be dealt with. There is more to this girl than the anger out burst. She is upset and the problem is an underlying pain and dissatisfaction. Your son is the anchor for this girl’s reality. He is the one who she needs and uses the most. This is actually why she beats on him. It is strange but she needs him in so many ways. He is close to getting her to the truth of her pain. She must find it not him.
The situation is not good because she has her own pain that she must face. I am sure a parent is a major problem in her life. This girl feels backed up against a wall and is scratching her way out. Sadly this will not stop the pain. Until there is an inner healing this behavior will not stop. “The Red Report” cure for teen cutting and adult self harm was not made popular by us. It was others who spread this report to now 8 countries worldwide. http://spirithappy.wordpress.com/cutting-yourself-why-doctors-cannot-cure-you/
Many feel our cutting report has opened their eyes to the cause of their pain. This is also an adult cutting problem, we regularly have adult cutters who read The Red report”
We use the truth system or honor system To teen cutting victims who truly have no money we give the 2 reports free of charge who request it. It was our Teen cutting report that this site was founded on in Denmark. The Spirit Happy health reports are now in 10 countires worldwide.
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